Taboos Around the World!
The word “taboo” originates from a mealtime in 1777 when British explorer James Cook invited a Tongan tribe to sit down with him and enjoy the food. The tribe refused, telling Cook it was taboo for them to do so. Startled, Cook, probably feeling a little taken aback, asked what taboo meant and after a little time with some help from the tribesmen, he found that it meant something that was forbidden inviolable or even cursed.
American is not likely to make a steak out of his dearly departed grandmother, but for the Korowai tribe in Western New Guinea consuming the carcass of the deceased is not a social faux pas. It’s rite.
Let’s start by traveling to the USA and looking at a controversial taboo that persists today. Having an intimate relationship with our own family member is seen as an immutable No-no in just about every culture not only because we deem it unethical. But also because the offspring of such a relationship is at risk of being genetically flawed. In the USA one famous incestuous relationship happened quite recently and that was with the Mamas & the Papas band leader John Phillips. He started having an intimate relationship with his own daughter Mackenzie. This was quite a shock when the story came out in 2009. Especially as his daughter told the press she had aborted his baby. In most US states that would be a crime punishable with a prison sentence although in New Jersey an incestuous relationship is legal. Marriage for the couple is not. Speaking of genetic flaws the author of “on the origin of species”
Charles Darwin married his first cousin they had 10 kids together and three of them died very young. In the UK incest is illegal but only for close family. What Darwin did then would be legal today in the UK. Staying in America for a moment, We know that when the index finger is pointed at someone it is almost universally seen as rude and that’s probably due to the export of Hollywood films. Outside of the USA is more complex.
In Asia holding up the forefinger and Index finger with the palm turned inwards is seen as a sign of cuteness but in the UK it’s liable to get you into a fight. This is because it was the signed English archers of the past show to their french rivals to prove they still had two fingers. The french would cut them off if they captured the archers so they couldn’t use them again to pull the straw on the archer’s bow. The sign now in the UK is the equivalent of giving the middle finger in the US. In most parts of Asia don’t point at anyone as its seen as impolite, while a thumb-up gesture in Israel where hitching rides is common is offensive.
let’s now look more at Asia where taboos are perhaps more prevalent. In some parts of Asia pointing at the soles of your feet at someone is seen as extreme rudeness and could easily get you into trouble. This is also true in Russia as well as parts of the middle east. That’s why when George W. Bush almost took a shoe to the head from an angry Iraqi journalist it was more symbolic than it was an act of violence. A shoe was a dirty weapon aimed at the highest and most esteemed point of the body. In countries such as Thailand and China putting your feet up on a chair and certainly anyplace near to where someone might put their head is seen as very disrespectful. The foot in most of Asia’s attitude is dirty and the head is seen as sacred. If you are planning to travel to Asia bare this mind lest you rankle the locals. okay, so the rude American may have upset his Asian host with his filthy big feet but what about the noise that guy makes when he eats?
Most cultures accept that eating quietly with your mouth closed is just plain good etiquette if you are older than three years old not so much in China. Eating at a restaurant can sound like a chorus of cows chomping down on wet grass. Well to the Chinese the sound emitting from your mouth is a sign of how much you appreciate the food it’s like saying that’s delicious without the words. The Chinese slurp and the Filipinos often smack their lips. If it bothers you just remember someone is having a good time in Asia. How you eat what you wear your body language and even how you write has to be taken into consideration.
In parts of Asia be careful when you write something down for someone as writing in red ink is seen as a curse this is because in some Asian cultures, red ink was reserved for messages applying to the deceased filling in an official form in red maybe even an arrival card in countries such as Taiwan, Korea, Japan or Thailand is seen as bad form and perhaps a very bad omen red is reserved for the dead in an official environment as far what you eat some Asians chow down on animals that are strictly Taboo foods in the west while cannibalism is downright taboo pretty much everywhere in the world there are certain animals cultures put on the table that cause outcries in the western media. The most infamous is the consumption of dog meat something it’s thought around five to 30% South Koreans have done according to one BBC story a bowl of dog soup will set you back about $10 in South Korea dog is also eaten in China, Vietnam, Nigeria, and Indonesia.
In 2014 Newsweek reported hundreds of thousands of people in Switzerland each cat and dog meat adding that it’s a specialty dish at Christmas, the French have a penchant for the cooked horse, the Thais have been known to eat chicken embryos on a stick and deep-fried Guinea pig as a specialty has moved from South America and is now eaten in the USA for around $45.
Insulting someone’s mother or father is taboo a pretty much worldwide for obvious reasons but in some cultures even mentioning parents in a negative light can get you into trouble or even killed. In Russia, a curse with a parent in it is seen as the worst thing you could possibly say.
In Madagascar children belonging to the Antandroy Tribe are not even allowed to call their father by his name in some Hindu families even the wives of Husbands are not permitted to call the man by his name although progressive Hindus see this as antiquated and patriarchal.
Some westerners may find that strange but in most western countries it’s taboo for children to be on first-name terms with their parents. The curse mother plus expletive is almost universal in language.
Surely public pooping is universally taboo in developed nations, Yes.
But the BBC reported in 2015 that open defecation in India was still a problem mostly due to the lack of toilets. French philosopher Michel de Montaigne upset his fellow highbrow intellectuals because he liked to discuss flatulence aka passing gas farting cutting the cheese he even wrote a treatise on farting and other bodily functions one saying kings and philosophers defecate so do ladies. In spite of his entreaties to help make the human race comfortable with such bodily taboos public farting doesn’t go down well in most cultures
Even though we fart on average about 14 times a day we are usually discreet about it. Not so much for the Yanomami tribe in South America were said to fart as a greeting
Taboo or not taboo that is the question.
We might do well to remember that our way of living is not the right way.